What’s panty fetish? why some men are obsessed with panties?
Note: You can change font size, font face, and turn on dark mode by clicking the "A" icon tab in the Story Info Box. Please consider leaving feedback on issues you experience or suggest improvements. My friend Randy and I have 50 years of combined first hand experience with the ever popular fetish for panties.
Randy and I have had numerous discussions about women's underwear and the thread that connect this simple, yet complicated, garment to male sexual arousal. We came to the undeniable understanding that most women don't realize the power they possess simply by virtue of their panties. Let me explain Our society has taken definite steps to elevate the female panty to a level where no other piece of clothing has ever been, and the proof of that fact is right in front Men us every day. Whether you refer to it as underwear, foundation, lingerie, under Men or panties, you can't walk into a mall without seeing one of those specialty stores with numerous pairs of sexy panties on the mannequins in the store windows.
Department stores have lingerie displays that are eye-appealing and spacious, all touting panties of different types, colors and fabrics — literally hundreds of pairs all out panty the open for everyone to see and touch. While, on the other hand, male underwear is usually on one rack in the men's section, probably hidden against the wall. In magazines, you can see eye-popping of women in their panties. On TV, we are treated to the yearly V.
You can go to any beach or swimming pool and you'll notice that swimsuits are emulating lingerie very closely. So even though underwear, in the strict sense of the word, is meant to be worn fetish our outer clothes ie, covered by our outer clothesthe reality of the situation is that women's fetish is most definitely meant to be seen If that wasn't the case, then why aren't women's panties thick, plain, white cotton like panty briefs?
If panties weren't meant to be seen, then why are they colorful, soft and sexy, with intricate des and fabrics? What would be the reason for sheer and transparent panties if no one was ever going to see them?
And what would be the use for crotch-less panties? My point is this: women's panties have transgressed the boundaries of simply being underwear. They are a statement of sensuality, femininity and sexuality, and they are clearly meant to be seen and enjoyed by both women and men. Once one can accept the fact that panties are more than just underwear, then we can get into the real meat of the subject at hand — the male panty fetish. Now, ladies — you can't blame us men for being attracted to your panties.
The truth here is two fold.
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First, we men have been trained to accept the fact that your underwear is special. Second, if you didn't want us to be interested in your panties, you would be wearing those "Sensible" cotton things your mom bought you years ago and we men would hardly ever see them.
The fact that you have a drawer full of soft, silky and sexy delicates is proof that you bought them for just one reason — to get us to look at them and to turn us on. I could spend days defending an argument supporting the Men that panties went from being undergarments no one ever saw to sexual fetish, but for the sake of discussion, let's just accept the fact that women's panties are intended to excite.
So, that being said, the question really becomes: "How will women use the sensual power of panty panties in their relationship with men?
Is it normal for men to have a panty fetish?
There's one thing I want to throw out there — even before we get into this any deeper, and it's directed to those women whose boyfriends, lovers, husbands, or ificant others have already hinted, or maybe even told you, they have an interest in your panties. And that is — don't ignore it. I promise you that when a man has told you they have an interest in your panties, they thought about it considerably before they told you. They agonized over it, considered your reaction and even weighed the chances of you being totally disgusted with their panty interest, but they took the chance you would understand and be willing to at least discuss and consider it.
No man ever approaches a woman to tell her that he would like to have access to her panties without considering the consequences.
I'm sure when first approached you might think it's gross, unsanitary, kinky or even perverted. If you feel that way because you don't think you smell fresh, sensual or sexy down there, perhaps you should reconsider.
While I don't think the majority of men have an interest in skid mark panties, your natural scent, secretions and juices are the very essence that turns us on. Believe me, we wouldn't ask if we weren't serious about it. So, ladies — if your man has approached you with a request regarding your panties, I urge you to be open minded about it.
You'll be glad you did when you see the happiness in his eyes and experience the attention he will give you. Now, for those women whose man hasn't verbally indicated an interest in your panties, take note of the following points to see if he has a potential panty fetish and how to make it easy for him to broach the subject with you, or how you can easily bring it up to him. Here are some classic s you can look for:.
Maybe someone else's skirt? Some behaviors could be completely secret, especially if he thinks you would chastise him for them. Here's some fairly common panty fetish behaviors:.
It's not that uncommon and there are well documented, historical s of men wearing female undergarments as far back as the eighteenth century. As a side note here, you might be interested to search the internet for "Pinaforing" and "Petticoating".
Here's a few ideas:. Then, while you're shopping, ask his opinion to find out which colors, styles and fabrics he likes.
Involve him and see how interested he is. Offer to model them for him. Pay special attention to see if they are disturbed, moved, or if they disappear. Then, ask him to show you which ones are his favorites — and then ask him why. Then, show him you honor his preferences by wearing what he likes. If he replies with anything other than an immediate "No" you can ask clarifying questions to gently open the subject with him. Say it's just for fun and it will be a secret just between the two of you. See how fast or slow he either agrees or disagrees.
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If he agrees, praise him for his courage. Okay, let's say after reading, considering and trying some of the ideas and suggestions above you find out your man might have some level of a panty fetish. What do you do then? Well, that's when you have to use your feminine intuition and wisdom. Let's face it, if your man does have a panty fetish — or even an above average interest in panties — you would be smart to at least understand it, learn how to allow it and how to use it in your relationship.
Woman's guide to male panty fetish
Understanding your man's sexual desires and needs is a key factor in keeping him interested and your relationship sexually healthy. Believe me, if you are sympathetic and understanding about his panty interest, he'll love you for it and he'll pay you back ten-fold for your kindness.
I feel obligated to tell you a brief personal story now — not because I think it's something you have to know, but, because I hope you can gleam something from the story that will give you some insight. Here goes:.
I'm on my second marriage. My first marriage failed miserably. Not only did our relationship as friends fail, but our relationship as sexual partners failed, too.
In fact, our sexual relationship failed almost from the very beginning, primarily I think because I've had a life long interest in panties. I made the mistake of telling her about it on our honeymoon.
Unfortunately, she thought it was terrible, horrible and unforgivable that I wanted to covet her panties. It meant so much to me and I was courageous in telling her, but she ripped my heart out when she told me she would never allow such a perversion and if she would have known about it before our wedding — she would have never married me. Yeah, okay — my bad. I should have told her before I proposed, or, at least before we were married.
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But, I didn't. We were eventually divorced and it was a messy, vindictive affair that drained me emotionally. A few years later, I met a woman and we started dating. After a month or two, we started being intimate and I gathered panty the courage to tell her about my panty fetish. She completely understood and was excited that I shared it with her. In fact, it became a foundation of our sex life and the openness it created allowed both of us to confidently discuss our desires and fantasies with each other. Now, years later, I have complete access to her panties any time I want it, and she even includes panties in our sex play without me Men to ask.
I always go lingerie shopping with her, even though I hate going shopping. All she has to do to get me to go with her is tell me she might pick up a few pairs of panties — and I'm ready to spend all day with her. On top of that, she's allowed my panty fetish to flourish so that I'm free to wear them when I desire to, and she'll even take the initiative to dress me in them from time to time.
The point of my story is that her acceptance of my panty fetish has allowed our love to grow and set the tone of our sexual relationship to be accepting and considerate of each other's needs. Would I have kept dating her if I'd learned she couldn't accept my panty fetish?